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Other-oriented Perfectionist tend to focus on the capabilities and actions of those around them. They tend to set unreasonably high standards for their partner and place great importance, often irrational, on the attainment of these standards. Unfortunately, this makes them often hostile and dogmatic towards their partner, insisting that mistakes can not be tolerated.

An Other-oriented Perfectionist feels that they are actually are behaving in what is at the best interest of their partner, not realising the stress they cause their partner by placing unreasonable expactations on them. Especially as Other-oriented Perfectionists tend not have any problem being openly critical of their partner and have a need to control their behaviour.

You can overcome your Other-Oriented Perfectionism by:

  • Learn to be more accepting of your partner's mistakes and shortfalls.
  • Accept that your demand for perfectionism is unreasonable and irrational, because no one is perfect.
  • Marriage counseling and Anger management techniques can be highly useful when you feel you are about to loose patience with your partner.
  • Learn to be more trusting of others.
  • learn to relinquish control.

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