Relationship Questionnaire

Your Name:

Your E-mail:

Your Partner's Name:

When in a relationship

I enjoy socializing

My comments and guidance are generally well received by my partner

I always put my partner's needs before mine

I prefer my partner and I to indulge in creative or artistic past-times

I often encourage my partner to contribute to decisions made effecting both of us

I often prevent careless mistakes from spoiling the success of any plan's we make

I only feel close to my partner when we discuss a hobby or a job that I specialize in

I am prepared to be blunt with my partner in the cause of making the right things happen

I am highly disciplined and organized

I try to keep my emotions under control and find it difficult to just let go

I believe my shortcomings in a relationship are

I need everything to be very structured, controlled and generally well conducted

I can easily manipulate my partner

I only like to do things that I know I am good at

I get bored very easily and have a need to try new and exciting things

I worry about the details of any plan, so I prefer to do things myself rather than delegate

I can be overly critical of my partner

I am seen as forceful and authoritarian

I find it difficult to be forceful towards my partner as I care too much about their feeling

I lose track of what my partner wants me to do as I tend to get caught up in my own "world"

I evaluate and analyze situations too much and find it hard to just let go

My partner sees me as (If not in a relationship, then think about your last one)

Caring

Extremely intellectual and knowledgeable

Forceful

Unemotional

Disciplined and organised

Creative and imaginative

Perfectionist

Adventurous

Sociable

Confident yet not overly domineering

I prefer

To make decisions based on facts rather than intuition or gut feel

To be organized and have a structured routine to my life

My partner and I to be caring and sensitive to each others needs

To have a strong influence on any decisions my partner and I make

To be socializing with friends and family rather than staying in

For my partner and I to make decisions together

To be a perfectionist in everything I do

To be creative when it comes to solving problems

To be given the freedom to pursue a specialised hobby or job

Not to be restricted by rules and regulations

If my partner gives me a difficult task

I prefer not to delegate it to anyone else as I find it difficult to trust the quality of their work

I like to read up as much as I conveniently can on the subject before tackling it

I will be creative in the delivery of the task

I will try to seek my partner's help in tackling the task

I will delegate the task to some one else and then supervise them

I believe the best way to completing the task is to focus on the details

I would prefer to take my time and be objective in finding the best approach

I would complete the task even if I don't enjoy doing it

I would challenge the need for the task to be done

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